Time you can see.

Together for
1,760 days

since

(try your own date)

Imagine planting a tree on the day you met. It grows a little with every day together, and the letters, memories and anniversaries you two make gather beneath its branches.

Grow Love home screen: a blossoming tree above the count of days together

Scroll through three years.

day 1
a seed in warm soil
The tree at every stage, from sprout to mighty

How it grows

Six stages across three years, from a first green shoot to a canopy in full blossom. One day at a time, no rushing it.

Sproutday 1

Sprout

Seedlingday 30

Seedling

Saplingday 100

Sapling

Young treeday 365

Young

Adult treeday 730

Adult

Mighty treeday 1095

Mighty

Little rituals, close together

Small things to do for each other, the kind that add up to years. The screen follows along as you read.

A handwritten letter sealed with wax, opened in the reader A buried time capsule in a bottle, waiting for its date Activities: the question of the day and games to explore together Real Big Catch: a two player fishing duel on one phone Growth streak: twelve days of watering and milestone rewards

Letters with seals

Write in a handwritten hand, press a wax seal you drew yourself, send it to the mailbox by the tree. Nothing to scroll past. A letter waits to be opened.

Time capsules

Write to your future selves, tuck the note into a bottle and bury it under the roots. It stays sealed until the date you chose.

A question every day

One warm nudge a day, plus twenty themed decks, for the evenings when "how was your day" is not quite enough.

Games for deciding

Who picks the film? Roll the dice, or settle it with Real Big Catch, a two player fishing duel on one phone.

Growth streaks

Every act of love waters your tree: answer the daily question, send a letter, bury a capsule. Keep the streak alive and unlock little rewards, from a first sprout to a golden leaf.

Some words are worth sealing.

In Grow Love, letters arrive closed and wait to be opened. Here is one for you.

press the seal

No feed. No ads. No strangers.

Grow Love is a place for exactly two people. Letters are sealed for one reader, capsules stay buried until their day, and nothing here asks to be scrolled.

Never run out of things to ask.

2,595 questions across twenty themed decks, if you are counting. We are.

And under the branches

A wooden mailbox with a red flag standing by the tree

A mailbox waits by the tree.

Shared wishlist

Dates, places, gifts and somedays. One list you both add to: pin what is next, tick off what you have done.

Milestones & anniversaries

First kiss, moving in, the day you got the cat. Mark the moments and the app remembers every anniversary for you.

Widgets & themes

Your days on the home screen, where you will see them without opening anything. In Meadow daylight or Forest Night.

On the horizon

Partner sync across two phones, new tree species, and more we are quietly planting.

Your days, on the home screen.

Add the widget and the count lives where you look first: no opening the app, just a glance while the kettle boils. In Meadow daylight or Forest Night, like everything here.

it keeps counting while you sleep

The Grow Love home screen widget: a blossoming tree above the words 1760 days together

Questions couples ask us

What is Grow Love?

Grow Love is an iOS app for couples that turns your time together into a living tree. You plant it on the day your story began, it grows with every day you are a couple, and everything you two make, letters, time capsules, answers to daily questions, lives under its branches.

Is Grow Love free?

The app will be free to download, with everything you need to plant your tree and watch it grow. We may add optional extras later, but the heart of it is not going behind a paywall.

Do we both need the app?

Grow Love works beautifully on one phone from day one: the tree, the counter, letters, capsules and questions are all there. Partner sync across two devices is in the works, and waitlist couples will hear about it first.

When does it launch?

We are polishing the last branches now. Leave an email and we will write to you once, the day Grow Love reaches the App Store.

Will there be an Android version?

iOS comes first. If enough couples ask, Android follows. Joining the waitlist is the best way to ask.

What about our privacy?

Your letters and capsules are written for one reader, not for a feed. There are no ads, no public profiles and no strangers anywhere in the app.

What if we break up?

Then the tree simply stops counting, and everything you two wrote stays yours, to keep or to let go. We hope you never need this answer.

Plant yours on day one

Leave an email and we will write once, when Grow Love reaches the App Store. No newsletters, just the seed.

Built by a couple who has been counting their days since September 2021. 🌱